Meet Our Team


Shira Berkovits, Esq., Ph.D.

Founder and CEO

Shira is founder and CEO of Sacred Spaces. In this role she has worked with Jewish communities across five continents to prevent, handle, and heal from institutional abuse. Her book, The Child Safeguarding Policy Guide, was released this past summer and was an immediate Amazon bestseller. Shira holds a Ph.D. in psychology from the Graduate Center, CUNY, where she was an Enhanced Chancellor’s Fellow and an adjunct professor, and a J.D. from Cardozo School of Law, where she was a Monrad Paulson Fellow. She has completed postdoctoral psychology fellowships in child trauma and rehabilitative alternatives to incarceration. Prior to founding Sacred Spaces, Shira worked on criminal justice reform, youth advocacy, and child protection at such nationally acclaimed organizations as the Innocence Project, Center for Court Innovation, and Gundersen National Child Protection Training Center. In her work, she has represented battered women and adolescent defendants, mediated legal disputes, and co-authored Rethinking Rikers for the NYC Board of Corrections, which contributed to the end of juvenile solitary confinement at Rikers. Named to The Jewish Week’s 2017 36 Under 36, Shira has been involved in Jewish communal work for over a decade, serving as youth director at the Hebrew Institute of Riverdale, consulting for synagogue youth departments across the US through the Orthodox Union, participating in the Paideia Paradigm program and AJWS Global Justice Fellowship, and most recently joining Wexner’s inaugural cohort of Field Fellows. She is a proud board member of the Academy on Violence and Abuse, Kol V’ Oz, and Male Survivor.

Ilene Rinn

Chief Operating Officer

Prior to joining Sacred Spaces, Ilene was the Director of Planning and Allocations at the Jewish Federation of Greater Pittsburgh where she worked closely with local agencies to ensure that resources and programs were in place to meet human needs across the community’s spectrum. She was also responsible for the allocation of $22m each year to community priorities, both locally and overseas. Previously, Ilene worked for the New York Public Library, where she was a librarian and a development event planner. She has additional experience working for environmental non-profit organizations including the Nature Conservancy and League of Conservation Voters. Ilene graduated summa cum laude from the Pratt Institute where she received a master’s degree in information and library science. She also holds a bachelor’s degree in history and women’s studies from the University of Wisconsin-Madison.

Photo by Jonathan Franzos

Sari Steinberg

National Engagement Director

Sari has always been active in the fight against institutional abuse in the Jewish community.  Her background includes experience in legal settings, political advocacy, awareness campaigns, conflict resolution, and educational institutions.  She has been involved in several communities as a lay leader and a professional, including her roles as a regional coordinator, communications specialist, and event planner for organizations such as CAMERA and the Kehillah Fund for Jewish Education.  A longstanding freelance writer, Sari has authored children’s books, co-produced educational videos, and edited Dr. Miriam Adahan’s From Victim to Victor: A Practical Guide for Recognizing Abuse and Discovering Our Spiritual Strengths.  She earned undergraduate degree Communication at the University of Pennsylvania and has engaged in advanced Jewish studies in the Scholars Program at Matan, Communication at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem, Jewish Professional Studies at the Spertus Institute for Jewish Learning and Leadership, and a variety of subjects in adult education programs at Solomon Schechter Day School and SAR Academy.  Sari enjoys interacting with individuals and the public, as well as working behind the scenes in a supportive role.

Danielle Pitkoff

Program Coordinator

Previously, Danielle directed the Sexual Assault Resource Unit (SARU) at Johns Hopkins University. Her work with SARU included developing workshops and campaigns to fight rape culture on campus, holding shifts on the crisis intervention hotline, and advocating for survivors of sexual assault with the Hopkins administration and Title IX coordinator. Danielle lectures on consent education and healthy relationships for Jewish institutions across North America. An alumna of SAR high school, Danielle is excited to once again be working with the Jewish communities she cares about so deeply.

Trainers and Policy Specialists

The mission of Sacred Spaces is no less than to bring every Jewish institution in line with best practice standards in preventing and responding to abuse. We cannot do this alone. Therefore, we have partnered Jewish social service agencies, already doing invaluable work in their communities, as well as the following policy specialists and trainers, to empower institutions with the education and tools necessary to protect their constituents.


Hadar Schwartz, Ph.D.

Hadar Schwartz is a licensed clinical psychologist with specialized training working with children, adolescents, and adults who have experienced relational trauma, including physical and sexual abuse. Hadar conducted trauma-focused individual, family, and group psychotherapy with youth victims of abuse and neglect and their non-offending parents at Jacobi Medical Center’s Family Advocacy Center and has run groups for adult survivors of child sexual abuse and survivors of campus sexual assault. In addition to her work as a therapist, Hadar has conducted research on sexual violence and sex trafficking and has published articles and presented at conferences on this topic. Hadar earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology from the CUNY Graduate Center, where she lectured on The Psychology of Women, and completed her postdoctoral training at Columbia’s University’s Counseling and Psychological Services. Hadar works in private practice in Riverdale and Manhattan and provides psychotherapy to individuals in a nursing home. She also consults with schools and universities on issues of sexual assault and abuse. Over the past year Hadar has been working with Sacred Spaces to develop model policies on preventing and responding to elder abuse in Jewish communal institutions.

Dovid Nyer, L.C.S.W.

Dovid Nyer received his B.A. in Liberal Arts with a specialization in Business Administration from Farleigh Dickenson University and his Master of Social Work from Fordham University Graduate School of Social Service. Previously, he studied in the Mirrer Yeshiva in Jerusalem, Israel. Dovid has worked for Bikur Cholim Center for Applied Psychology as a Staff Therapist and currently has a private practice in Monsey, NY. He utilizes various modalities in his clinical practice and is currently pursuing training in Trauma Focused CBT. In addition to his private practice work with clients, Dovid has several years experience of activism in the Jewish community. In August 2015 he independently organized a Kol Koreh signed by over 100 Charedi Rabbis urging for reporting suspicions of child abuse directly and promptly to the civil authorities. The following year, he organized in collaboration with RCA, OU and YU Leadership an abuse prevention policies proclamation signed by over 300 Orthodox Rabbis.

Alison Feigh, M.S.

Alison Feigh has been working in the sexual abuse prevention field for more than 15 years. She trains nationally on a variety of topics around abuse, abduction, and online exploitation. Ms. Feigh firmly believes that personal safety messages can be positive, empowering, and accessible. Ms. Feigh serves as the Program Manager of the Jacob Wetterling Resource Center, a program of Gundersen National Child Protection Training Center. She has worked with families of missing children and adults since 2000. Alison previously worked as a minister to youth and children at a metro area faith community for six years. She continues to be inspired and reenergized by working directly with children and teenagers at camps, retreats and theatre companies.

Victor Vieth, J.D.

Victor is founder and director of Gundersen National Child Protection Training Center. In this role, he has trained thousands of child protection professionals from all 50 states, two U.S. Territories and 17 countries on numerous topics pertaining to child abuse investigation, prosecution, and prevention. He has been instrumental in implementing 22 state and international forensic interview training programs and dozens of undergraduate and graduate programs on child maltreatment. Victor gained national recognition for his work addressing child abuse in small communities as a prosecutor in rural Minnesota. He has been named to the President’s Honor Roll of the American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children. Victor is regularly asked to consult with legislators around the country regarding policy and reform and has testified in front of the United States Senate. Numerous foreign countries, including Saudi Arabia, Russia, and Colombia, have sought his expertise to guide them as they create and implement groundbreaking child protection policies.

Hon. Robert Hettleman

Robert has over twenty years of experience as a prosecutor and a judge in the areas of child abuse, child welfare, domestic violence, and sex crimes. He was the Chief of the Child Abuse Unit at the Manhattan District Attorney’s Office, where he investigated and prosecuted cases of physical and sexual abuse of children, including homicides, cybercrimes, and trafficking. He became a New York State Family Court Judge in 2014, presiding over cases where child protection authorities alleged abuse and neglect of children. Robert has worked closely with law enforcement, medical and mental health providers, child welfare and foster care organizations, and the courts to coordinate and improve child abuse prevention, holistic help and support for victims and their families, and the way courts and government deal with child abuse and neglect.

As part of his work, Robert helped found and oversee the Manhattan Child Advocacy Center, where children are seen holistically and by experts in the field in order to provide proper evaluation, treatment, support, and investigation. He has worked closely with schools, religious organizations, hospitals, and other companies to investigate allegations, develop educational and awareness programs for employees and communities, and create child abuse prevention protocols.

For many years, Robert has taught law school courses on child abuse, domestic violence, the judicial process, and criminal justice at the Benjamin Cardozo Law School in New York. He has lectured and trained in these areas around the US, in Cuba, Turkey and Israel.